In this song Rodney sings about how his son learned a bad word by hearing his dad say it but also learned how to pray by watching his dad pray. As I have become a father recently I have really been thinking about how I want to define my fatherhood. This song really impacted me because I realized that my daughter, Ella, will be watching my every move and trying to emulate me.
These are two of my greatest examples of fatherhood. My dad on the right and my father-in-law on the left. My dad is one of my heroes. He taught me how to love others even when it was hard to love others. He also taught me to do what inspires you and when you find that inspiration give it 110% effort. He taught me that the most important role in his life and what should be the most important role in my life is the role of father. My father-in-law is another great example. He has taught me that being a good father is characterized by a tender and loving attitude. He speaks with a peaceful tone and an understanding heart. He tries to provide solutions instead of perpetuate problems. He is deeply devoted to his role as father even with his immense work and church responsibilities.
These men are wonderful examples to emulate but the thought comes: Who do my father and father-in-law look to emulate? More importantly, who do I intend to emulate? While I look towards my father and father-in-law as examples of righteous fathers I realize that the ultimate source of inspiration is found in Ephesians 6:4 and Enos 1:1 where the scriptures teach me to father "in the nurture and admonition of the Lord." Christ is the ultimate example. If I want to be the best father for Ella, I need to be the best disciple of Christ I can be. Then Ella will learn from me, like the song describes, how to kneel in prayer rather than what naughty words to utter when you miss a green light.
You are already a fabulous father because you love Tara so completely. As you continue on this journey of fatherhood, continue to look to the Savior as your example. Love is the key.
ReplyDeleteSweet song...and sweet words about the dads in your life. ❤️
ReplyDeleteok, here goes comment #2---Being a father for the first time is such a thrilling experience and journey. Your post reminded me of my first years with Parker and becoming a father for the first time. We became fast buddies and he followed me everywhere, copying me, and trying to do everything I did. You are so right when you say that Ella is looking at you and following your example. She has a great example in you to follow--don't ever forget that. The Lord is there along side you to help you when needed and to carry you when needed. Just always include Him in your undertakings and you will never stray. I'm excited to follow your blog and see where it takes you this semester. I've given a lot of thought to starting my own blog on becoming a grandfather for the first time. Oakley won't know what hit her. We are all truly blessed in our lives and have so much to be thankful for. Thank you for sharing your life with us. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteOk, that last comment was from me--Troy, not Makaela, obviously! I just love technology. I finally got it right! Yea me!
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